While you are caring

Something has changed with a parent, a spouse, or a child, and the questions got harder.

If you are the one making the phone calls for somebody else now, this is your stage.

Talk to someone who knows these rules

A diagnosis lands, or a parent stops being able to manage on their own, and suddenly there is a category of question nobody prepared you for. What long-term care costs and who pays for it. What Medi-Cal means for the house. What happens to a disabled child's benefits if you leave them money the wrong way.

This is its own body of law, and it runs on deadlines and eligibility rules rather than on documents.

What lives here

  • Elder Law and Medi-Cal Planning
  • Special Needs Planning

The nursing-home, Medi-Cal and elder-law questions are Patrick's half of the practice, and he has been answering them on camera since 2012.

“There is often a sense of guilt... If you don't mind my sharing my personal experience, I've went through something very similar, and I understand the exhaustion that comes along with it.”

Patrick Phancao, on camera, on moving a parent into a nursing home

“Come talk to me. It's not a scary experience, and we'll go over a detailed plan of what you should anticipate as you age gracefully.”

Patrick Phancao, from one of his own videos

What lives here, in plain words

  • Elder Law and Medi-Cal Planning

    The rules that decide who pays for long-term care, and what that means for the family home.

    (MEDI-CAL DESCRIPTION, SHADI TO SUPPLY THE LEGAL WORDING)

  • Special Needs Planning

    Leaving money to someone with a disability in a way that supports them without costing them the benefits they rely on.

“As you age gracefully.”

Patrick, on the two things people are most afraid to ask about this stage.

“First, it's not an abuse of the system. It is not the taking of a government payout to the detriment of taxpayers, and it is not hiding of your assets. Quite to the contrary: you have contributed your entire life to the system, so it is time, as you get older, to maybe benefit from it if the need arises.”

Patrick Phancao, on Medi-Cal planning, from his own video

“Remember that a Medi-Cal plan is what I call something that you can put on the shelf. It's a plan that you actually prepare, and it is possible that you never call upon it, which is something, ironically enough, that I always tell my clients: that I wish that you never, that we never have to call on to this legal plan. But if need be, it's prepared and it's ready to go.”

Patrick Phancao, from his own video